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I welcome your solo travel questions
and will do my best to answer them here.
Click above on Contact Us to submit your question
The answers to many of your questions are in my 32-page booklet, 145 Resources for Solo Travelers, $6.95, including postage, to Aller Press, 226 Harvest Trace, Sharpsburg, GA 30277.
The train in Spain, with a dog
Sharon,
I’m going to Spain for a month and plan to take my small dog. I cannot find any information on taking my dog, in carrier, aboard the trains. Help! Sandra
I love Spain and hope you and your dog have a great time.
I'll bet you could find out about riding on trains with your dog from the Rail Travel Center. This organization can book train travel anywhere in the world, and they deal with solo travelers quite a bit. Talk with Dixie or Tobe there and ask them. The number is 800-458-5394.
For more information about traveling with pets, check out:
Solo to London
Hi
Sharon, I am going to London in November by myself and I was wondering
if you had any information on which hotels would be good for a woman traveling
alone. I was looking in the Bayswater/Paddington district. I heard it was a
decent priced area. Thank you, Jessica
I adore London - there is so much to see and do there, and I love seeing theater performances as well as exploring the museums.
When I was last alone in London I stayed at one of the many affordable hotels on Sussex Gardens near the Paddington tube station. Here's a website that may help: www.hotel-london.co.uk.
Why
are there single supplements?
Hi,
Sharon
I just became aware of single supplemental charges, but I am really
interested in why the tour industry would discriminate in this manner. I can
understand paying a full room charge if there are two beds and there is just
one person but why the 200% supplemental charge on cruises for people who want
to travel alone? This practice must be based on something and I was wondering
if you knew how it originated or how I could find out?
I’m amazed in this day and age that companies think this practice is
acceptable but maybe there is some logical reasoning that I don’t understand.
Thanks, Kristy
The single room supplement is charged to singles taking tours alone. I call this Noah’s Ark Syndrome because it favors pairs of people.
The
problem is that modern hotels are built with rooms for two people. The hotel
incurs the same costs for that room in amenities, upkeep, furnishings,
utilities and staffing whether one person or two occupies it. So the charge to
a person occupying a room alone is nearly as much as the charge for two people
sharing the same room. Tours that book rooms in these hotels are charged by the
room, and price their tours on the assumption of two people per room sharing
the cost. One person, staying alone in a room, must pay the cost of the entire
room. Thus, the dreaded supplemental charge.
Is it fair? I guess that depends on whether you’re the hotel owner or the traveler.
The supplement is higher on cruises than tours, because the hotel room is only part of the cost of the tour, along with airfare, sightseeing, airport transfer and other charges. On cruises, the cabin is the primary charge, plus the cruise line will lose additional money a roommate may have spent on excursions, cocktails and gambling.
If I really want to take a particular tour, I will ante up the extra money for the single room supplement, so long as it doesn’t cost more than 20 percent extra, to enjoy the privacy of my own room. That way I can enjoy quiet time to recharge my battery and recover from any impatience I may feel from being in a group.
A growing number of tour companies offer to match you with a same-gender roommate so you can avoid the supplement fee. A few even offer a guaranteed share rate when you book early enough; if a roommate is not available, you will not be charged the supplement. But many people don’t want to gamble on rooming with a stranger.
My
booklet, 145 Resources for Solo Travelers, lists many
solo-traveler-friendly travel and cruise companies.
Dominican Repubic
Hi, Sharon,
Does the Dominican Republic have a department of tourism? If not, how can I get information about the island, because I am interested in going. Thanks, Jacky
Check Amazon.com for guidebooks on the Dominican Republic.
Also, to find tourist offices for any country, visit www.towd.com. Here’s some info that may help:
Dominican Republic Tourist Office, 888-358-9594, www.dominicanrepublic.com/Tourism
Solo
to Turkey
Hi, Sharon,
I
have traveled extensively both taking tours and traveling on my own. I
prefer traveling on my own. I am considering a trip to Turkey in September. My
friends and family are telling me I am taking a risk due to the countries that
border Turkey and the fact that I am an American woman traveling alone. I
am a little nervous, however I still prefer the independence of traveling
on my own. I would appreciate your input on the risks. I would
also appreciate any suggestions you may have on a trip like this. I intend
to use Lonely Planet as a resource. I am retired and in good health. Mary
I traveled alone to Istanbul last October and thoroughly enjoyed my time there. I found the people to be very kind and friendly. Turkey is 99.5% Sunni Muslim and, as such, crime is forbidden and rare. I was cautioned only of pickpockets and purse-snatchers. I was careful to dress conservatively in slacks or skirts below my knees and tops with sleeves. In Mosques I covered my head and removed my shoes.
I can only speak from experience about Istanbul, because I did not travel around Turkey. Yes, it borders on some countries that are not friendly with our government.
I have found that most people are good at knowing the difference between American citizens and the American government. Here is some info I posted at my site after my trip:
I
was cautioned to only take taxis from taxi stands or hotels, not to just flag
any taxi. I hired a taxi for two hours of sightseeing along the Golden Horn and
the bill was just $35.
My
recommendations:
q
The Hotel Uyan is clean, safe, comfortable and very well located in the
historic Sultanamet section of Istanbul, a short walk to the Blue Mosque, Aya
Sofya and other important sites. It is very solo-traveler friendly, with single
rooms of varying sizes, all with private bathrooms. I chose the smallest for
just $40 per night, including cable television in my room and buffet breakfast.
There is also a computer for guests to use. Visit www.uyanhotel.com.
q
The Seven Hills Hotel and Restaurant is two doors from the Hotel Uyan
and across the street from the Four Seasons Hotel. I highly recommend the
restaurant, which occupies the top floor and an outdoor terrace above it, with
the most spectacular view you can imagine of the Aya Sofya, Blue Mosque, the
Sea of Marmara, Golden Horn and twinkling lights of cities beyond the water.
Twice I opted to dine on the terrace to enjoy these views; the staff will wrap
you in as many shawls as you want to stay warm – I required three. Prices are
modest, the menu has a wide selection and the service is excellent. Visit www.hotelsevenhills.com.
q
It is easy to dine very inexpensively in any of the many restaurants along the
main tram line between the Grand Bazaar and the Blue Mosque. Three times I
spent just $5 for vegetarian dinners at these restaurants.
q
Enjoy shopping at both the Grand Bazaar and Spice Market; both
are also rich in photo opportunities. Compare prices and quality and know that
bargaining is expected.
q
Turkish Bath: the one that was recommended to me is the historic Çemberlitaş
Hamami, built in 1584, very near the Grand Bazaar. It costs $18 for bath
plus massage; there are separate sections for men and women. Women wear their
panties, so bring panties to wear afterward, and a plastic bag for the wet
ones. Bring makeup, moisturizer, hair conditioner and comb, if needed. A locker
and key are provided, as are hair dryers, towels, soap, shampoo and sandals.
Visit www.cemberlitashamami.com.tr.
q
It is easy to take a bus up the coast to visit other towns. Just ask locals for
directions and bus numbers. Two towns I recommend are the affluent Bebek and
the charming Ortaköy, both along the European side of the Bosphorus.
q
Take a ferry (less than $1 each way) across the Bosphorus to the Asian side of
Turkey. I recommend the town of Kadiköy; ask which day the open market takes
place (I believe it’s Sundays) and try to go then.
Solo-friendly cruise lines
Hi, Sharon,
I
have just advised Cunard that I will boycott their ships until they change
their policy on the single surcharge. I would like to suggest that all of
your subscribers send them the same message. Virginia
Thanks for your comments. I'm happy that you're a solo-traveler activist.
Cunard, however is not totally anti-solo-traveler. In fact, it offers a few single cabins aboard its Queen Elizabeth II, and offers a gentleman host program. For those reasons, they are listed in my booklet, 145 Resources for Solo Travelers.
Princess offers a room share service for most cruises.
Silversea ,www.silversea.com, and Seabourn ,www.seabourn.com, both offer single supplements as low as 110% of the double occupancy rate.
In all, there are 27 cruise lines or cruise organizations listed in my booklet.
Racist encounters
Hello
Sharon!
I would like to believe that in this day and age I wouldn't have to ask you this question, but as someone who does travel and has had some negative encounters, I feel compelled to ask. As a black woman traveling alone, do you have any suggestions as to where I can travel safely? Racism is out there and it is the last thing I wish to encounter while traveling alone!
I am a seasoned traveler having traveled to Europe several times, Canada, the Caribbean and most of the US. I'm finding that if I want to continue traveling the way I enjoy it, I'll have to go it alone! Any suggestions you could give would be most appreciated. Furthermore if you are aware of any other websites that might be of some guidance I would welcome that also.
Thank your for your help!
I've
been taking a long time to answer your message because it is different from any
other I've received. While I'm an expert on solo travel, I have a difficult
time addressing the issue of racism.
I'm
not naive and don't doubt that racism still exists in some people, but I can't
think of anyplace on earth where it is considered socially acceptable to hold
such animosity.
I'm
curious as to the nature of your negative encounters and wonder if there may be
any other explanation. Some people are simply rude, which is something we all
encounter occasionally. Also, on rare occasion, we are discriminated against
for being female and/or solo.
I
received glares for being clad in shorts and a sleeveless top while roaming a
small, conservative town in Crete - a mistake I will never again make. I was
once denied dinner at a small, busy restaurant at which I'd waited
patiently in line, simply because I was alone and the greedy owner wanted at
least two people at each little table. These were very upsetting experiences
for me; had I been of a minority race I may have thought that was the
reason.
My
advice to you is pretty much the same as I'd give to anyone asking for
suggestions on solo travel. Major world cities offer the best variety of things
for solo travelers to see and do, and most big cities also have diversified
populations.
Solo
travelers also do well in following their interests, taking a vacation that
focuses either on what they already love or want to learn, such as biking,
hiking, paddling, photography, cooking, shopping, and so on.
Volunteer
vacations offer solo travelers an opportunity to immerse themselves in a
new culture while doing something to make the world a better place.
Group
tours let you explore while in the company of others, which might make you feel
more comfortable. There are many options in my booklet, 145 Resources for
Solo Travelers, available on my Solo Travel Tips page.
Other
websites you might find useful are www.HERmail.net,
www.Journeywoman.com,
and www.cstn.org.
I
hope I've helped and would welcome any further questions/comments from you.
Strasbourg, France
Hello
Sharon,
Thank
you for your website. I'm truly inspired. I purchased your resource booklet and
read the article in USA Today. A friend of mine will be studying in
Strasbourg, France in July and I might be able to avoid a hotel and stay
at her dorm? Any tips for getting a deal on airline tickets? Do you
have a preference for an airline? Also, do you think I'd be better off
getting a vacation package?
Kim
Thanks
for your kind words!
To
answer your last question first, I do not think you'll be better off buying a
vacation package, because they are all priced for two people.
July
is the height of the tourist season for Europe, so it might be difficult to
find very low fares. Finding the best airfares is not my specialty, but I would
suggest first exploring fares online, then checking with a good travel agent.
Look
at Strasbourg on a map, then figure out several nearby major cities you could
fly into, and then take a train to Strasbourg.
Try
www.Kayak.com
for finding the lowest airfares. And another tip is titled "Flight within
Europe for $99" using www.europebyair.com.
With
some intensive research, you might be able to find a European city into which
you can fly for the lowest fare, then tack on a $99 connection flight.
My
preference for an international airline is, of course, Delta (look for me - I
might be serving your dinner). Check our fares at Delta.com. We fly nonstop
from Atlanta to Stuttgart, which is not too far from Strasbourg. Frankfurt,
Zurich and Paris are other options. You might plan a few days (at least)
to linger in any of those cities.
If
you are very flexible on the days you can fly, you will find lower fares. The
most popular days to fly to/from Europe are Fridays, Saturdays, Sundays
and Mondays, so try to avoid them.
Tours to Greece
Hi,
Sharon,
I
was wondering if you could recommend an escorted tour package to Greece. I’m
44 and have traveled alone before, but haven’t done anything escorted.
Thank You, Gayle
Always
check out the Travel Tips page at this site; I often post tour information to
Greece.
Also,
you might consider ordering a copy of my booklet, 145 Resources for Solo
Travelers. You can look through all the listings, decide which tour
companies most appeal to you, then check out their websites and sign up for
their newsletters announcing their upcoming trips.
Affordable
travel for mature adults
My
mother is a missionary in Peru. She wants to come back to the USA, retire and
travel. She is 66 years old and I am trying to finds a club or something she
could join to be able to travel with other people and enjoy herself. Keep in
mind she only makes about $1,100 per month on social security.
Thanks
so much for your time, Elizabeth
Here
are a few affordable, solo-traveler-friendly options for your mom:
Elderhostel,
www.elderhostel.org
ElderTreks,
www.eldertreks.com
Interhostel,
www.learn.unh.edu/interhostel
Intrepid
Travel, www.intrepidtravel.com
Your
mom may also be interested in volunteer vacations. Here are a few options:
Council
Exchanges, www.councilexchanges.org
Idealist,
www.idealist.org
InterAction,
www.interaction.org
All
of these listings, with descriptions and contact information, come from my
booklet, 145 Resources for Solo Travelers, available on the Travel Tips page of
my website.
How to dress for foreign travel
Dear
Sharon,
On your web site you make reference to some of the things that typify Americans, among them the wearing of nylon jackets. I'm planning a solo around-the-world trip later this summer and among the items I usually pack is a navy blue nylon windbreaker that rolls up nicely into a pocket-size pouch. It's perfect in its utility because it is waterproof, blocks chilly winds, and takes up virtually no space in my luggage. However, I don't want to be recognized as an American tourist traveling alone by wearing it. Can you recommend an alternative? Thanks, Russ
I'm
trying to get Americans to dress more appropriately when visiting world
capitols. Even our pilots tend to wear jeans and sneakers - the uniform that
marks them as tourists.
But
there are exceptions. I wonder if your solo, around-the-world (how I envy you)
trip will be as a backpacker? Or will you be visiting mostly developing
countries? If so, then the windbreaker is fine.
But
if you'll be visiting major cities, I suggest instead a sportcoat (you can get
a lightweight one in a silk blend - I bought a very affordable one for my
husband at Kohls), even if worn over solid-color t-shirts and docker-style
microfiber slacks. Especially if you're over 30.
If
you want to share with me more about your destinations and style of travel,
maybe I can offer more tips. I would love to hear more about your trip anyway.
I am so excited for you!
Mexico travel
Hi
Sharon,
In reading your recent Q&A, I noticed you are a big fan of Puerta Vallarta. Thanks for the recommendation for a safe, solo travel experience. However, when I travel, being a history buff, I like to visit historical places, and I would like to have the beach and the Mayan ruins and silver mines, too. Any recommendations?
Mary Ann
I'm
a big fan of Mexico, period. I've traveled there quite a bit on my own and find
it affordable, friendly and, with normal precautions and street smarts, safe
for women alone.
My
suggestion is to buy a good guidebook or two, such as by Lonely Planet, Moon or
Fodor’s, to research the various areas for what you want to see. You might
want to visit a few different areas, as some are best for beach and others for
silver mines and/or Mayan ruins.
Also
visit the website and call the tourist bureau for suggestions:
Mexico
Tourism Board
21
EAST 63RD STREET 2ND FLOOR
NEW YORK, NY 10021
Telephone:
1 800 44 MEXICO toll-free in USA
To cruise solo - or not
Hi
Sharon--
I've
won a "free" cruise through my work. It's a four night cruise out of
Miami on Royal Caribbean Cruise Lines with stops in Nassau and Coco Cay,
Bahamas and Key West.
I
say free, but I do have to pay airfare from Upstate New York, two nights of
hotels in Miami, and any expenses on the boat and shore. I'm not complaining,
it's just that there is a significant amount of money being spent.
My question is
this: I'm a very young 50, divorced for a few years, traveling alone, and am
concerned I am going to be the "only" single person on the ship. I'm
not expecting to find the perfect someone or big party time, but I don't really
want to be on a ship with all couples and families, either. I asked the travel
agent handling the reservations and she was very vague.
I've
always wanted to go to a Caribbean Island and don't know if I should take
advantage of the free cruise part, or spend my money and maybe a little more on
something else that would be more what I am looking for.
From
your experience, any idea or suggestions?
Kevin
Tough
decision for you, and ultimately one you'll have to decide on your own.
But
I have an opinion, as I usually do!
Given
the money you're paying for the airfare and two nights in Miami, why not skip
the cruise, on which you can't guarantee any other singles, and go to the
island of your choice. Sounds to me like it's your goal to visit an island, not
to take a cruise. The cruise won't stay in port long enough for you to
enjoy island life.
By
staying on the island of your choice, you can relax and explore to your heart's
content.
Be
aware, though, that many islands and resorts are honeymoon havens, so choose
carefully. Research online, with a travel agent or in guidebooks to help you
decide which island and hotel to choose.
Let
me know how it turns out.
Hi
Sharon--
Well,
it's been almost two months, but I did want to let you know how it turned
out.
I
tried to get to an island, but am so new at this and was somewhat pressed for
time, I ended up taking the cruise. And yes, I do believe I was the only solo
traveler on board!! Oh well, live and learn. I did meet a lot of real nice
people though. The actual cruise was okay; some parts I really liked, some
parts just not my thing. I am definitely going to an island next time.
When
I got back I rented a car and traveled down through the Florida Keys and ended
up staying in Key West for another five days.
The
best part about the whole trip was that I DID it! With the
encouragement from your emails, website and booklet, (and a couple of
letters from my brother and pushing from a friend), it gave me the
inspiration/courage to go. And I am so glad I did! I feel like a whole new
world has opened up for me with a thousand places to go discover.
And
now I know that if I want to go do something on my own, I CAN do it.
Sounds
a little corny, but it's true.
I
guess I'm babbling on here a bit. I just wanted to write and say THANK YOU for
your encouragement and positive thoughts on traveling single/solo. It
really helped!
Kevin
Airport security
I
am 70 and in good health. Would like some information about what I should know
about what I should expect at the airports, I have heard some horror stories
and wish to avoid them. I have not flown since 911.
Some one even told me the snaps on bras would cause you to be searched.
Don't
worry about the new airport security. Just get to the airport with plenty of
time to spare: about two hours early for domestic flights and three hours early
for international. You can always spend your spare airport time grabbing a
snack, looking in all the shops, people-watching, and chatting with other
travelers.
Sometimes
the lines to check luggage and get through security are long - nice to have a
magazine or just chat with everyone else in line.
You'll
save lots of time if you travel with just carry-on luggage (one bag of 22"
or less) plus a small personal bag, such as briefcase, computer bag or purse.
Also,
you must have a boarding pass to get through security. Instead of waiting in
line at the airport, you can usually go to your airline's Website and print the
boarding pass from your home computer before leaving for the airport.
At
the security checkpoint you place your hand luggage, coat and any loose items
(cell phone, keys, etc) on the conveyor belt to be scanned. There are plastic
tubs provided for your coat and loose items. If your shoes contain metal, even
the nails in the heel, it's best to remove them and place them in on the
conveyor belt.
Then
you walk through the metal detector. If you set off the detector, you will be
scanned again with a handheld metal detector wand. It's no big deal and
won't delay you more than a minute or two. Snaps on bras should not set off the
metal detector, but sometimes an underwire bra will do so.
Men also travel alone - and love it!
Dear
Sharon,
I visited your site and thought it was awesome but I think you are missing out on a segment -- what about men who want to travel alone. If you purposefully are targeting women, because you are one, then great that is cool, but I think you are smart enough to put together something for men also and I think it would be more welcome than you think.
Anyway keep up the good work and if you don’t do this, I understand.
Paul
Hi,
Paul,
Thanks
for writing.
Actually,
my site is for everyone, male, female, young and old. There are very few trips
I feature that are for "women only." Of my subscribers who completed
the profile, 23% are male, and 50% of orders for my booklet, 145
Resources for Solo Travelers, are from men.
I
certainly welcome more input from men; some of the Q&A I've posted are from
men. So, if you have any places/tours/destinations to recommend, please submit
them to me at this address. And let me know what sorts of information you'd
like to see. Do you believe that men have different interests and concerns when
it comes to solo travel? If so, care to elaborate?
If
you have any specific questions about solo travel for yourself, I'll be happy
to help.
Hi, Sharon,
I am a single widow, age 62. I would like to take a trip in the middle of May. Do you have anything available in a cruise at that time?
Sorry I'm not a travel agency. My purpose is to encourage and help solo travelers, and I post solo-traveler-friendly trips and advice. Usually I have one or two cruises posted, so please check out my Travel Tips page.
Cruises didn't used to be solo-traveler-friendly, and many still charge outrageous single supplements. But the cruise industry has begun to realize that solo travelers bring more business. My new booklet, 145 Resources for Solo Travelers, lists 27 solo-traveler-friendly cruise lines and organizations. Here are a few of your growing options:
Care to take a river cruise in the USA? Check out www.DeltaQueen.com. You can take cruises of from 3 to 14 days from various ports along the Mississippi, Ohio, Cumberland and Tennessee rivers. Guaranteed share is available for certain categories; single cabins are available on American Queen. Gentleman host programs are offered.
Also try www.CrystalCruises.com. Crystal offers lower supplements of 125% on each cruise, depending on cabin category, and provides a gentleman host program so you'll have a dance partner.
Some other options: www.CruiseWest.com, www.ClipperCruise.com, www.CruiseMates.com.
Hi, Sharon,
I am planning a trip to Italy for possibly next Fall. I was wondering if you could share any information on inexpensive but interesting accommodations in Tuscany. Thank you!
I don't have that information in my files, but here's my favorite way to find a good, inexpensive hotel at any destination:
I go to a big bookstore that has a coffeeshop inside. I locate all the books on my destination and take them into the coffeeshop, where I look at them while sipping a latte. Look in the "accommodations" section of each book for recommended hotels in your price range. When you find the same hotel listed in more than one book, that is where I'd call first.
Then I buy at least one or two of the books. Budget travelers can't go wrong with Lonely Planet and Moon guidebooks. For the most up-to-date information, pay attention to the publication dates of the books.
Alternatively, or additionally, you can go to Google.com and type in "small hotels in Tuscany."
Hi, Sharon,
Could
you please send me information on lodging in Rome? I’m looking for a local
type where people have knowledge of tours and local places to sightsee and
dine. Thanks!
Thanks for your message. I've just returned from a vacation in Rome and stayed at a small, lovely, inexpensive 3-star hotel a short walk from the Termini train station.
Lilium Hotel
via Vente Settembre 58/A
00187 Roma
This hotel offers single rooms, or will let you stay alone in a double room for just 10 Euros more.
Single rooms, with private bathroom and shower, cost 110 Euros in high season, from March 20 to July 10, September 10 to November 10, and from December 27 to January 6.
Single rooms in low season cost 80 Euros, from January 7 to March 19, July 11 to September 9, and from November 11 to December 26.
The hotel is safe and secure for solo travelers and the staff is kind and very helpful.
Check it out at www.LiliumHotel.com.
Dear Sharon,
I’m
recently retired. Do you recommend working as an air courier as an economical
way to travel? If so, could you please recommend a reliable association?
A solo traveler can see the world inexpensively while acting as a courier. A courier carries shipping documents on international flights in exchange for a discounted air ticket. You must usually forfeit your baggage allowance, as the courier company uses this. You may take only as much carry-on luggage as the airline permits, normally one small bag. The length of stay varies but almost always allows for at least seven days at your destination. Flights only operate from gateway cities, so you must get to that city at your own expense. Compare courier flight savings with the savings you can find yourself using other means.
Courier fares can be a real deal if you live in a gateway city and if you can fly on less than a week's notice.
The International Association of Air Travel Couriers serves as a clearinghouse for couriers. Membership costs $45 and includes a subscription to the bi-monthly Travel Guide International magazine. Log onto their Web site at www.courier.org.
Another courier
association is Global Courier Travel. Their annual membership is $50 and their
Web site is www.couriertravel.org.
Hi, Sharon,
I discovered your site today and really like it. I decided to order your book, which was listed at $14.95. When I clicked the link to Amazon.com it shows 10 books available, starting at $74.88.
Is there a way to purchase your book for $14.95?
Thanks
for your message. I'm delighted that you want to buy my book, but even I have
to admit it's not worth $74.88!
Sadly my book is out of print now and the only ones available are those that individuals are selling via Amazon. I'm sorry they're asking so much money for them. Perhaps your library will have a copy.
I've written a new book, The Joy of Solo Travel: How and Why to Travel Alone, and am looking for a publisher.
In the meantime, please let me know if
there are any specifics of solo travel that I can help you with.
Hi, Sharon,
I have never traveled alone before but am contemplating it. I am 50 and married, but my husband will not travel outside the USA.
I want to go to Italy and have never been to Europe. I’ve traveled the USA and Caribbean and am done with that. I thought maybe a tour group that caters to solo travelers. What do you think? Any tips or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks for writing. Your situation is common, and I am happy for you deciding to set out on your own. I am happily married and still enjoy traveling alone.
I suggest you take a look at www.menopausaltours.com. They have a trip to Italy planned for later this year. Obviously, this tour will be all women "of a certain age," so you will have lots of company. They offer roomshares so you can avoid the single supplement.
For an earlier Italian adventure, check out www.osolomio.com.
Hi, Sharon,
First, thank you for your website; it serves a vital need.
Most of your respondents are women. The women’s view is conveyed well, but there are travelers who aren’t women. I see most stay in “safe” countries and few venture out.
It would be nice if, on your Recommendations page, you highlighted the destination discussed so viewers won’t have to read through each entry.
Asia is noticeably missing. I like Asia but am reticent to mention my favorite destinations as I’m not a tourist but a curiosity traveler, respectful of the fact that I’m in someone else’s backyard.
It is nice that you list website URLs, but it would also be nice if you listed all the prices, including taxes.
Every screen seems to have a “subscribe now” element about it, and it had the opposite affect on me. I know that you have to make a living off the site and that doesn’t bother me. What bothers me is having to pay directly or indirectly for using the site.
I think the site has much to recommend it, yet it is a broadcast-to-the-world site, which isn’t good for sensitive travelers who don’t like to see the hoards descend en masse for destinations because it soon destroys that destination.
Keep
on keepin’ on with what might be a good website. Here’s wishing you the
best!
You offer constructive critique and I'll keep your comments in mind as I continue work on my site.
Regarding some of the points you make:
My site is for men and women of all ages. I include everyone. Of my subscribers who have filled out their subscription profiles, 23% are male.
When you say "safe" countries, I assume you're talking about the most popular destinations, such as Europe, Caribbean, USA and Canada. I encourage everyone to see the world, and to "stretch the envelope" of their comfort zone. Just because a country or destination is off the beaten path does not make it "unsafe."
To me, the ideal is solo, independent travel. That offers the greatest freedom and the greatest opportunity for interaction with the locals at your destination. But many travelers opt for the security of tour groups. I've reached the conclusion that whatever sort of travel gets somebody off the couch and out the door is good. My mission is to help everyone in that regard. One benefit of traveling solo is that you get to choose your own destination and style of travel.
I do recommend travel to all corners of the globe, including Asia, of course. I post solo-traveler-friendly tours to all destinations.
I welcome your personal recommendations of solo-traveler-friendly destinations and especially affordable, clean and safe accommodations anywhere on earth.
I post links to solo-traveler-friendly tour companies and travel clubs and post the general information of their upcoming trips, but it would be too time consuming and make my web page too lengthy to report on all the details, such as price, taxes and so on. When you find a destination and date that appeal to you, just click on the URL link to get the details.
Two of my pages have a "Subscribe Now" button and I'm still smiling that you think this brings me money. My newsletter is free to subscribers and, in fact, it costs me money and many, many unpaid hours of work each month to provide it. My site is a labor of love, which I do in an effort to repay all the kindness I receive from strangers in my travels.
What little money I do make is earned from the few links I post to sites that I use and recommend, such as Amazon.com, Magellans.com, Priceline.com, Hotels.com and a few others. I encourage my visitors to please use these links from my site - you'll pay no more and it will bring me a little money.
My greatest reward is thoughtful letters such as yours, expressing appreciation for my site.
Thank you and happy
travels!
Hello, Sharon
I have some vacation time coming up and want to take a tour by myself. I am looking for a sightseeing type of vacation someplace warm. Do you have any suggestions?
Thanks for writing and for visiting my site.
My goal is to empower people to travel alone, to give them resources and information to help them.
What I cannot do is choose destinations for people. To me, part of the joy of solo travel is selecting your own dream trip.
But I hope my site will give you some ideas and perhaps a tour you might want to join. I hope you'll sign up to receive my free newsletter and watch for trips you'll want to take. When you see a tour company or travel group offering trips you like, then sign up at their website to receive their trip updates. That way, you'll always be prepared with travel options.
Hello,
I find your website and resources booklet very helpful so please keep up the good work!
I would like to know if it is best to carry your passport on your person (in a safe place) or leave it in your hotel or room safe. Some people carry copies on their person and the originals are left at the hotel. However, I have also heard that sometimes the authorities won’t accept them if you are asked for ID on the street. Please advise me.
I never carry my passport around with me while at my destination. I leave it in the hotel room, usually in the room safe. In my wallet I carry a small, laminated copy of the picture/signature page.
But if you're staying somewhere where you feel there's a risk of having your passport stolen, then do keep it with you in a hidden pouch worn around your neck or waist.
In all my years of travel, I have never been stopped on the street and asked for my passport.
Hi Sharon,
I am a 24-year-old professional who loves to travel. Most of my friends
are either in grad school or can't afford to take time off from work to travel
with me. Aside from Contiki, can you recommend other travel companies
geared for young travelers? I am interested in South/Central America, and Asia
travel. Thank you so much!
Besides Contiki, other travel companies that welcome travelers your age are
Trafalgar www.trafalgar.com
(try their Breakaway Tours), and O Solo Mio, www.osolomio.com,
a travel club that offers some tours for travelers ages 18-35.
Hi, Sharon,
My
mom is a young 72-year-old widow and interested in traveling the world. Is your
site geared for people my mom’s age? If so, can you recommend a singles
travel group that would be appropriate for her?
Yes, my site has subscribers well into their 80s. There are many
solo-traveler-friendly tour companies for seniors.
I post solo-travel tips that include tours, cruises and destinations for all
ages. Check out my Travel Tips page. For starters, check out www.Elderhostel.org,
www.ElderTreks.com,
www.50plusExpeditions.com,
www.gct.com.
These companies and many more are listed in my Resources for Solo
Travelers booklet.
Hi, Sharon
I am also an airline employee and have traveled to many countries solo. Do you have any recommendations for India?
Also, I am interested in Bali and Papua, New Guinea. Any suggestions?
I would also love travel companions. I'm 54, and divorced with grown children.
I have not been to the three countries you mention, though I'm sure I'll visit India one day. I recently flew with a former Pan Am flight attendant who described her love of the Indian culture and also described the gruesome sights of poverty they'd see while riding into cities for layovers. She strongly recommended a book, Freedom at Midnight.
She said the best way to stay healthy is to dine only in hotels. I'm not sure that is entirely reliable, though. I'd sure see a doctor who specialized in travel before going, and have Rx to treat stomach or intestinal ailments.
As for Bali, I know there was a terrible terrorist attack there in recent years. As with all destinations, research safety at the State Department websites; my Resources page links to those of three countries.
Research each destination via the Tourist Office link on my Resources page. When you decide which appeals to you most, buy at least two guidebooks for that destination and research further. Highlight the specific things you want to see and do, then plan an itinerary.
Contact other travelers, or people who live in the countries that interest you, via HERmail.net.
To find a travel companion, I recommend going through Connecting:Solo Travel Network, at www.cstn.org.
Please let me know
how it goes.
Fearful of solo travel
Dear
Sharon,
I am a single female, 24, and I really need to get over my fear of traveling alone. In college I went to Hawaii alone for a semester, and that was a blast; I ended up living there for about six months. But I met people on my flight, so I was never truly alone. I have also traveled to India for lengthy periods at a stretch. I am due to start a new job in mid November and am really dying to travel somewhere alone to get over fears, have fun and gain self-confidence.
I
know I can do it, but I am wondering where I should go?
I am thinking somewhere Spanish speaking, such as Dominican Republic,
Mexico or Puerto Rico, as I have skills in the language. If I do go to Mexico,
where is the best place for a solo, young female traveler? Also, I am
interested in tropical beach, snorkeling, hiking and waterfalls. Money is not a
concern as this is my last hurrah before a new job in the travel industry! So,
what do you think? Please advise me!
I'm going
to tell you what you want and need to hear: Go!
You
already have your destinations in mind; just check online to find out about
hurricane damage and safety precautions. I'm sure you can score some good
bargains now. If you go alone to islands, try to avoid "honeymoon
havens" by researching hotels before you book.
Your solo
experience to Hawaii was typical in that you met people. Traveling alone, you
always will. It's one of the first surprises people find in traveling solo —
you meet more people!
Buy a
couple good guidebooks and research your destination online as well. Use hidden
money belts or the hotel's safe for your credit and ATM cards. You can even buy
waterproof pouches to wear while snorkeling.
In
Mexico, Puerto Vallarta offers lots to do for someone your age. I've been there
alone and felt very safe.
Let me
know how it goes!
Dear
Sharon,
I
am writing about an experience I had with SinglesCruise.com. If something
unforeseen happens, you're on your own! I
booked the four-night Labor Day cruise on Carnival scheduled to depart Miami.
While taking a 3-day Carnival “cruise to nowhere” to escape the hurricane,
I was delayed getting back to Florida. I e-mailed asking for help from
SinglesCruise. Their reply was "I see you did not purchase the insurance
offered when you booked you cruise so unfortunately, unless Carnival looks at
your particular situation and makes an exception you will lose your money spent
on the cruise." They didn't even make an attempt to help.
Upon
reaching the Port of Miami I spoke with Carnival reservations who instantly saw
my predicament and offered a full refund on my missed sailing. All
SinglesCruise.com had to do was pick up the phone and call for me, but they
wouldn't even do that.
First,
I'm glad that Carnival decided to give you the full refund on the cruise you
missed due to being late. Perhaps they decided to do so because it was their
"cruise to nowhere" that made you late.
I've
spent some time looking over the SinglesCruise.com Web site. It states clearly
that "You are also responsible for getting to the ship on time, and the
cruise line is not responsible for any plane delays, cancellations of flights,
lost baggage, etc."
The
SinglesCruises Web site also states that insurance for trip
cancellation/interruption is priced at just $49 for the 4-night cruise.
Your
story illustrates the importance of buying insurance to prevent your loss of
money for pre-paid tours and/or cruises. Trip cancellation and interruption
insurance provides reimbursement of non-refundable prepaid travel arrangements
due to a number of reasons such as illness or injury to you or a close family
member, financial default of a tour company or airline, strikes or natural
disasters and your being required to serve jury duty.
I don't
see any wrongdoing on the part of SinglesCruise, although it would have been a
nice gesture for them to make the call to Carnival on your behalf.
Cruises
for African-Americans
Hi,
Sharon,
In
an article in "AARP-The Magazine,” a comment was made by a woman who
said that she ran cruises for single African-American travelers over 50. I
wrote AARP to find out more details, to no avail. Have you ever heard of such
an agency?
No, I
haven't heard of these cruises but did a search on Google.com.
I came up
with this interesting link that offers many options for African-American
travelers: http://www.1uptravel.com/travellinks/speciality-afr-amer.html
Perhaps
you'll find something you like there.
Tours
to Australia and New Zealand
Sharon,
I
am a single, 35-year old woman interested in taking a trip to Australia and New
Zealand next winter and, although I enjoyed Contiki in my 20's (I've been on at
least 4 other Contiki trips in Europe), I'm not sure the accommodations
are what I am looking for now. Do you have any recommendations for a
singles tour operator where I can meet other like minded travelers in the 30-40
age range and also provide athletic excursions- water sports, hiking, biking,
etc?
Basically
I'm looking for a step up from Contiki without getting into the over-50 age
range.
After
searching the websites of the listings in my booklet, 114 Resources for Solo
Travelers, I've come up with a few you should scope out:
Adventure
Associates: www.adventureassociates.net
Backroads:
www.backroads.com
O Solo
Mio: www.osolomio.com
The World
Outdoors: www.theworldoutdoors.com
Be sure
to talk with each operator and ask about the average age of participants and
about accommodations.
Additionally,
Singles Travel Connections, an Australia-based, singles-specializing travel
agency is offering a singles trip of Australia in July of 2005. All rooms will
be single in keeping with their policy; all their trips use single rooms
without a surcharge. Visit www.singlestravel.com.au.
Tours
from Baltimore?
Hi,
Sharon,
I
am from Baltimore, Maryland. I’m interested in upcoming trips and tours from
Baltimore. I would also like to get information about groups or meetings in the
Baltimore area.
I'm sorry I can't be much help. I'm not aware of any trips or tours from
Baltimore, except that some tours are "land only" and air from
Baltimore can be tacked on to the trip.
Or, companies like Go Ahead Vacations, www.goaheadvacations.com,
has departure prices from Baltimore. Most participants are 50+.
Another suggestion: do a Google.com
search for "singles gourmet in Baltimore." Singles Gourmet has
branches nationwide and many of them sponsor tours.
India
Dear
Sharon,
I'm
planning on traveling to India the first week of May for a total of 10 days.
Can you recommend a tour operator over there? I'm interested in a 7-8 day tour.
You
might want to reconsider your timing, as May begins India’s rainy season. Overseas
Adventure Travel, www.oattravel.com,
has tours to India from January through April and offers a roommate matching
service for those who want to avoid a single supplement.
For
more information, visit the tourist office at www.tourismofindia.com.
Happy
travels,
Sharon
Visa
information
Hi,
Sharon,
I
plan to go to Europe next year--hopefully in February. I want to do family
history research mostly in France, but also England, and I also want to visit
other countries.
My
question is this. A co-worker's daughter, 12 year old, is an ambassador this
year with People To People and was supposed to go to China. But, the
foundation didn't get her passport stamped by the Chinese consulate in time, so
they had to reroute her to Europe.
I
never knew you had to get a pre-approved stamp on your passport to travel.
I
will be applying for my passport soon. I'm 35 and this is the first time I've
applied for one, so I am not up on all of this.
Any
advice would be welcome.
Yours
is a very good travel question.
Some
countries require visas for all entries, other countries only require visas for
longer stays. United States citizens can learn which countries require visas by
going to Foreign Entry Requirements page of the U.S. Department of State Web
site, http://www.travel.state.gov/visa/americans1.html.
Click on the letter of the country you'll visit to find out whether
you will need a visa, and what other requirements there may be.
Canadians
can find Visa information at http://www.voyage.gc.ca/main/before/visa_services-en.asp.
Allow
plenty of time before your trip to get your visa.
You
will not need visas for France or England, but China, as you've learned, does
require one.
Canadian
solo traveler
Hi,
Sharon,
Do
you have any flights that leave from Vancouver BC or must they all depart from
the USA?
My
nearest small airport is Bellingham, Washington, the largest Seattle, but the
inconvenience of traveling there probably outweighs the lower prices given. Am
I correct?
Perhaps
you know of a Canadian company such as yours, if so, I would appreciate
receiving this information.
I
obtained the information on your site from the C.A.R.P. (Canadian Association
of Retired People) magazine, so am surprised that they did not advise that it
was only for US citizens.
My
web site is not for U.S. citizens only, though most of my trips are from U.S.
based companies. I actually have subscribers from many other countries who
enjoy reading my newsletter and travel advice.
Mine
is not a tour or travel company. My web site is intended to support, encourage
and enlighten solo travelers.
A
Canadian web site you should check out is www.cstn.org.
Diane Redfern is a friend and fellow solo-travel promoter. I think you'd
benefit from membership in her Connecting: Solo Travel Network.
You
might also want to check out www.travelbuddiesworldwide.com,
which is BC-based.
A
Calgary-based travel group is at www.goingsolotravel.com.
Hope
this info helps you.
Happy
travels,
Sharon
Local Guide
Sharon
I
am a divorced male, 52, seeking travel companionship in France or Israel for
August of 2004. I do not speak any language other than English and a bit of
Spanish. I am looking for a local guide service that would handle the language
and navigation to the historical sights of interest. I would prefer a female
guide. I am not looking for romance only local understanding and avoidance of
any potential difficulties.
For
finding a local guide service, contacting the tourist office is your best bet.
Use this link: www.towd.com.
But
language may not be as big of a problem as you'd imagine. English is the second
language of most of the world and is widely spoken in Israel and France,
assuming you stick to the main sights. Even when you venture off the beaten
path, there always seems to be someone who speaks a bit of English.
As
far as seeing the sights, if you feel you want help and companionship, you can
sign up for sightseeing tours while at your destination.
I often take a 1/2 day tour in a new city just to get my bearings and see what's available. Then I go back alone to the sights that appeal to me and take my time seeing them.
Finding
single
ladies
Hello,
Sharon,
Are
there places you can suggest where single ladies go? I am not looking for
anything but friendship and a companion. I am thinking about going to Mexico.
Is there a place there that I should consider? I am a 38-year-old single male.
I don’t have problems traveling alone but thought you could suggest something
new.
I am always reluctant to suggest specific destinations for solo travelers. To me, the best part of solo travel is making that decision yourself.
I
have traveled alone several times to Mexico and have enjoyed Puerto Vallarta,
San Miguel de Allende, Guadalajara and Cancun. I think it would be harder to
find single women your age in either San Miguel or Guadalajara, but the other
two destinations would be more promising.
Start
your research using the Resources page of my website. I'd also suggest a
guidebook or two, such as Moon and Lonely Planet.
What
is a solo traveler?
Dear
Sharon,
I thought solo travelers meant people wanting to travel alone so could you please tell me more?
There
are several sorts of solo travelers. Personally, I prefer solo, independent
travel, because it gives me the greatest freedom, allows me to more easily
immerse myself in the local culture, and lets me meet people more easily at my
destination. It's more work for me than taking a tour, since I must make all
the plans and book the hotels and any sightseeing. But the reward is in
tailoring a trip to my personal taste and doing just as I please each day.
Other
people prefer to travel in tour groups, yet they don't have a travel companion,
or their spouse is unable or unwilling to go.
And
then there are the "singles," who not only want to travel, but want
the hope of finding romance within their tour group, or at least not being
alone in a group of couples.
Frankfurt
Dear
Sharon,
Are
there tours I can join that originate in Frankfurt? I wouldn't mind joining
another mature woman as a companion. I am 49, high energy and active.
The
tour groups and companies that are solo-traveler-friendly all originate in the
USA or Canada. But I suggest you research other tours by checking with the
tourist office. Visit
www.towd.com.
You can also sign up for sightseeing tours when you are in Frankfurt - every major city has at least one tour company. Or, it would be easy to base yourself in Frankfurt and take day-trips by train or bus to surrounding cities. I know from my layovers that Mainz is a wonderful town to explore. I'm sure that in your travels you will meet other women - hopefully Germans - who will spend some time with you as you see the sights.
Young solo
traveler
Hello,
Sharon
I
am a 24-year-old female that loves to travel. I have never been on a full out trip on my own before.
I never even went on Spring Break while in college. It was all work and school.
I see a lot of advice on your site for older adults and seniors, but not for
people my age. Could you please help with some advice? Where is it safe to
travel for someone my age that kind of wants to party, but yet wants to be able
to sit and read ocean/poolside? Thanks.
Check
out the following tour companies - all appeal to, or offer programs for, people
your age.
Resorts
& All-inclusives
Hello,
Sharon,
I
am in my late 20's and really enjoy traveling alone. I'm looking for a winter
vacation, preferably to somewhere warm. I've seen lots of great double
occupancy deals, but the single occupancy rate is almost double that.
I'm
looking for something relaxing, but with some activities. Also, probably an
all-inclusive would be best, so maybe a resort? Any suggestions, or ideas on
where to look?
Most
resorts and all-inclusives do not have affordable rates for singles. But there
are usually inexpensive hotels in or near nice areas that would be safe for a
woman alone. In staying at such places, you'll get a better feel for the local
culture than you would at a fancier, higher-priced hotel or resort.
I have personally enjoyed the culture, activities and weather of Mexico. Even though Puerto Vallarta, for example, is a popular destination with high-priced hotels, you can also find small, privately owned hotels for much less than $100 per night. Check out the tourist office at www.towd.com for more info, and also check out accommodations recommended by travel guidebooks such as Lonely Planet, Moon, and Rough Guides. Another great, safe destination in Mexico is San Miguel de Allende, an artist's community with a large number of American and Canadian